So I work full time and go to school as well. I met a girl in my speech class and we talked a bit, but not much All semester. I got her number and before you know it we we're together almost every day. So it has been about a month and a half. We went out once, but that was it. All the other times I would go to her house and study with her, mostly our own different classes. We'd cuddle up on the couch and take the time that we could together since we both worked and go to school, because time off at the same time was limited. We would get a little touchy feely and make out etc. But she is a religious girl (protestant) and wants to wait till she's married. I just accepted that... so she's 21 and I'm 24 and she lives at home. So I've met her parents, both are great. She's extremely intelligent, and prob out of my league I think. She's more of a goody goody. So, we went out again for the second time, had dinner and saw a movie. She was all over me, head on my shoulder, holding hands, kissing, etc. It had been going so well, I was gonna ask to make it official as my "girlfriend" but got side tracked. We talk every day like crazy, and have literally sent about two thousand messages in a month and talk on the phone for numerous hours at night. She all of the sudden doesn't talk to me all day Sun, then we spoke on the phone for an hour on my way to work at midnight. Didn't hear from her the entire next day. I asked her if something was wrong at 2am, I'm at work and she's always up late. We talk on the phone and she said she couldn't see me anymore. I met up with her last night for two hours to talk about it and she said she needed to work on herself... but that we could never be together and I couldn't make her change her mind. We went on a walk and she sat in my lap, curled up into my shoulder and held my hand when we got to a park. I tried to change her mind, respectfully, but also tried to just understand why we couldn't all of the sudden be together... she couldn't really tell me why... I brought her some bad ass flowers yesterday and kissed her on the cheek and left... I dunno what to do. I don't know what all of the sudden happened. I'm a gentleman, we never fought, Nothing bad or no signs at all. She said we could never be together because of it and pretty much made it clear that she wasn't changing her mind. I was falling for her and I dunno what happened. She's only dated one guy before for 2 1/2 years. He cheated on her and lied, was a dick etc. I dunno if that has something to do with him... they broke up in June. She said it didn't, nothing to do with her strict parents... I,dShe just broke up with me.... said she needs to "work on herself." We went out Sat night and we were soo happy. I was about to ask her to be my gf officially... nope got tossed in the trash. I dunno. I got dumped hard for no reason, she just tells me I won't understand.... that's all I got today. Maybe she's immature, maybe she is scared to get serious again, maybe I treat her too nice, I dunno. She said it has nothing to do with me. I asked her if she was dying or becoming lesbian as a joke and she said no haha. What should I do guys, thoughts? I'm just gonna give her space. That's all I know to do. Shit sucks balls....
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